If you recall the ancient folk wisdom, which reads: “Gathered to build a house – choose the wrong place, but your neighbors,” it will become clear that what your neighbors will have, and what kind of relationship you will build with them will largely depend life. And really – it’s nice to live next to those who will not turn on loud music in the late hour, and will not start repairing in the early morning, and who can just go to just like that – drink tea in a neighborly one and chat. But how to achieve quarrels and conflicts with neighbors to minimum and live together with the whole entrance? If you are lucky, and your neighbors are quite sane and adequate personalities, then it is quite possible to build good relations with them.
Naturally, you should not provoke scandals yourself. Even if you just got up and you need to urgently hang furniture, you do not need to do it in late evening or at night – otherwise you will immediately drive your enemies in the face of your neighbors. Follow the temporary framework defined by law, and then your neighbors will immediately understand that you treat them with respect. Well, if you, knowing that a small child or an elderly person lives in a neighboring apartment, will also go to them and apologize for the inconvenience of inconvenience caused by the noise in your apartment, then you will surely earn yourself a reputation as a polite and tactful person.
It will be easier for you to build friendly relations with your neighbors, if you have something in common – for example, in your family and in a neighbor, children of about the same age are growing. Most likely, living nearby, they will look, so you always have topics for conversations over a cup of tea.
Sometimes it also happens that in the neighborhood people live from different social strata, having a different level of material prosperity. The situation is difficult – it is clear that the banker and plumbing are unlikely to find many common interests, but, nevertheless, politely greet and exchange several common phrases, for example, about the weather, if desired, they can always. In addition, sometimes even such people may coincide with hobbies or hobbies, therefore, if they want to maintain normal neighboring relations, they can discuss the result of another football match or the next catch of each of them at a meeting.
Sometimes quarrels arise between neighbors of different ages. This is natural – it is difficult for older people to understand the lifestyle of representatives of the young generation, and vice versa. If you have the same situation, then, being young, just try to imagine that your beloved grandmother lives behind the wall, and behave accordingly. If you are a person of an older generation, then do not try to teach your young neighbors how to live – because you, like no one else, know that people learn only on their mistakes. It is better to help each other if necessary – perhaps you will once look after their child or feed them a bird, and they go to the pharmacy for you or will help you pay for your utility bill.
In order not to provoke conflicts, strictly ensure that, for example, your child does not throw the candy wrappers next to the apartments, and your animal did all your affairs only where you will take it away, and not on the neighbor’s mat. If other neighbors live, observing all these simple principles, there will be practically no reasons for quarrels in your house.
In the case when it was still not possible to avoid the conflict, and you understand that this is your fault – do not indignant and do not raise your voice to your neighbors who came to you with a claim. It will be better and more constructive if you calmly apologize to them and do everything in your power to eliminate the cause of the unpleasant incident in your house.