As a rule, after parting, former lovers or after a divorce former spouses practically stop communicating. They begin to spend time in different companies, visit other bars and restaurants, in general, try to do everything so that they do not meet with each other. But it happens so that former lovers or spouses work in one company. Then the task is not to cross with each other and it does not become more difficult.
How to work with the former
Whatever the reason for your parting, but you should stay with your former if not friends, then at least in normal friendly relations. And you and your former young man must understand that if you become enemies for each other, then it will be difficult for you to work together. At first, it is quite possible to limit your communication only by working moments and questions. Staying in good relationships does not mean at all that all breaks for lunch you must spend together.
Do not discuss with colleagues not the reason for your parting that you are no longer together. Work is not the place where you should discuss your personal life. In addition, after your story, the company can go gossip and rumors that will definitely reach your former man. It will naturally be unpleasant for him and will not like it. And the revenge of the offended man can be terrible enough. Therefore, you should not take risks and spoil your life.
How to work with the former
Of course, it cannot be said that after parting people experience positive emotions in relation to each other. Therefore, your former may have a desire to ruin your life, take revenge, substituting before your bosses. And you must be ready for this. Try to do your work perfectly, do everything on time, and then you just can’t complain about you. If you yourself want to point to the boss to the mistakes of your ex -man, then it is better to restrain this desire. This will encourage your relationship even more, and will make your joint work even more difficult.
If some of your colleagues knew that you had a relationship, they could start asking questions, dissolving gossip and tearing. You need to try not to pay attention to all this and not react. If you have a new man, you should not rush and tell all colleagues about it. This news will definitely reach your former and can provoke a negative reaction.
You should not start another novel at work in order to announce your former. It is better to refrain from a love relationship with another colleague in general. Because this will not only negatively affect your reputation, but also if you part with it, as you can work with two former.