Each time, getting acquainted with a new man, every woman hopes and believes that this time is a feeling for life, and a new friend is a man of dreams.
How to recognize a womanizer
Of course, I always want to believe in the best, but it happens that naive women become the booties of the next Casanova, a womanizer, pickup. This type of men must be avoided in order to avoid unnecessary experiences. They are easy to recognize in the crowd of other guys.
Babniks are always exorbitantly polite and even helpful. They try to seem better than they really are, and therefore they behave too much flexible, they agree with you and try to please you in every way, it is not for nothing that they are also called ladies’ saints. Beware of such obedient guys, or better check them. Suddenly, still a serious man came across? Ask to do something that takes a lot of time and requiring a lot of effort. For example, write to you a coursework. If a man has serious intentions, then he will get down to business, but the usual womanizer will run away. And you will not be tormented by doubts.
Also, Casanovs are usually very very much on the fables, and their language is well suspended. They can talk about some nonsense for a long time, inventing the details on the go. To expose such a craftsman, make a conversation in the direction that you are very familiar, so you can catch your boyfriend on inconsistencies. You will be able to remove the entire gloss from the image of this womanizer.
Do not tell a lot about yourself, womanizers are excellent psychologists, and can use new information for their own purposes. You won’t have time to blink an eye, but you will already get to the bait to the pickuper. Do not yawn, listen more, say less. Pay your attention to the little things, perhaps you will immediately catch the style characteristic of the pickuper and stop even before its start. The main thing, do not allow yourself to immerse yourself in a kind of state of error and relaxation, when this person can influence your thoughts and your opinion.
If you want to find a simple guy without just taking advantage of you, look for those who are embarrassed to sometimes come up and talk to the girl. Among such guys, just gifts of fate are often hidden. A person who behaves like a real woman who behaves, distributing compliments to the right and to the right often like that and turns out to be in fact. So it turns out that the first impression is the most true. Trust your eyes and ears.
To evaluate a person, always judge by his actions. If a person says a lot, but does nothing, then the price is worthless to his skills. If you are looking for serious relationships, look for active men. Lovelaces are not active, they are often lazy and selfish. And they simply do not know how to take care of their loved ones, and sometimes they do not want to. Avoid such specimens, bypassing a mile away.
Do not try to re -educate an inveterate womanizer. This is an completely unpromising option. You can’t do it. If a man, according to some psychological factors or life beliefs, positions himself Donjuan, then you cannot do anything about it. Just spend your time and effort in vain. So do not shake the air, better take up the search for a truly standing man.
In any case, remember why you are doing this. If you are looking for serious relationships, then look for a young man suitable for this. Well, if you suddenly decided that you are not averse to having fun and find adventures for yourself, then just turn around and go. Behind the acute short -term sensations that a real pickuper will give you. Relax, enjoy and forget about it before you get used to.
How to recognize a womanizer
Such the main rule communication with a womanizer. You can not count on more. But if it suits you, enjoy the moment.