Unfortunately, not everyone can maintain a conversation with the opposite sex. But it is so uncomfortable when a lively conversation is interrupted by silence, which each partner regards the fact that the interlocutor is tired of this communication. What to talk about with a girl and how to avoid pauses in a conversation? What topics will be interesting to her and what is better to never start talking about?
Not all guys can chat incessantly, but only those who have a “suspended language”. If you read this article, then you obviously not enter this category. First you need to find out her interests: what she does, what attracts her in life. Ask more questions, because this is the perfect option to avoid an awkward pause. But at the same time, you must be able to listen to your interlocutor without interrupting, so you will demonstrate her increased attention to her. Когда девушка будет увлеченно давать ответ на твой вопрос, ни в коем случае не зевай и не води взглядом по всем предметам, которые расположены вокруг сас – это произведет впечатление того, что ты совсем не слушаешь девушку. You can very offend her very much. During the conversation, look directly at the girl and try not to take your eyes off her.
A list of topics that should be used in the conversation:
Studies;
Job;
Music,
Literature;
Favorite places in the city;
Sport;
Animals;
Favorite drinks and food;
Human qualities;
Internet;
Philosophical questions.
A list of topics that you should not include in the conversation:
Relatives;
Financial situation;
Religion;
Policy;
Topics that carry negative.
Avoid those that will be interesting only to you or which will not be interesting to the girl. It is usually not recommended to start a conversation on computers, mobile phones and other technical devices, cars and football. The exception is only if the girl is a fierce fan of football, a lover of various gadgets, devices and admirer of fishing.
We advise you to build a conversation so that the girl does not have the impression that she is in interrogation. Do not rush to express your opinion if she does not ask about it. Disagreements in views can give rise to a conflict that you obviously do not want.
It is desirable that you have prepared interesting stories from your life and the life of friends. Well, if on her face in this way you will cause a smile. This will indicate that the conversation is directed in the right direction, and you chose the right topic for the conversation. Be sure to track the reaction of the interlocutor to your phrases, her gestures and movements. So you can find out if she likes this topic or not.
Expand your horizons and replenish your vocabulary if you do not know how to describe an interesting story in words. We also recommend that you practice before talking to a girl. This will help you if you cannot and tie two words.
Remember: Girls love with ears, so try to make sure that they are caressed by those phrases that will bring them pleasure. But do not allow yourself to lie that at some point can play against you. Saying a lie, you can easily get confused in your testimony, so we do not envy you later.
Also, you do not need to talk about yourself for hours. It is unlikely that the girl will be interested in listening to your achievements for hours. Therefore, limit this information. It is not recommended to pour compliments often, since a girl can regard this as a common lumption, which is very bad.
In the ability to maintain a conversation, openness and frankness plays a big role. Never laugh at the hobbies of your interlocutor and then any conversation will bring you and the girl only pleasure and pleasure.
Good luck!